All sabnzbd jobs start orphaned, fail to download the first time and then work

Sonarr version (exact version):
4.0.13.2932
Package Version
0.3.2 by Home Assistant Community Add-ons
.NET
Yes (6.0.13)
Docker
Yes
Database
Sqlite 3.48.0
Debug logs:

Description of issue:
any episode downloaded shows up in sabnzbd as orphaned right away and doesn’t download, sonarr says download client unavailable, says it will retry,
pretty much when it retries it works and downloads and imports fine.
in the log file it seems the initial connection is a request timed out
v4.0.13.2932] NzbDrone.Core.Download.Clients.DownloadClientUnavailableException: Unable to connect to SABnzbd, Http request timed out
but the connection is at least somewhat successful because the job gets added to the queue, but its orphaned, and doesn’t download.

the log file shows trying to import a futurama and make some noise episode
the first time they fail and then they go through, can confirm the connection to sabznzbd tests fine, I’ve tried its local network and docker ips both do the same behaviour



running both sonarr and sabnzbd in Homeassistant.
reinstalled sabnzbd no change
any help is apprecated